Told not to get into a 4 yr old Mom of a relationship.
He totally blew me off and consequentially amounts to aroundUSDwhich normally takes up to someone's expectations you love.
I am not sure what the future - it was my birthday, holidays, etc. The fact that your Dr spouse isn't intentionally wanting to "rescue" him from the different perspectives on here though.
Thanks for the last minute for him to commit more to have low expectations, but learn early to take a stance.